Wednesday, January 31, 2018

Guilty Pleasures

Nobody likes to hear more bad news about sugar, but it’s becoming an inescapable fact that sugar and dementia are linked. My cousin, Kathleen DesMaisons, has worked on and published books about the problems associated with sugar addiction for years, and she helps people reduce their dependency and restore their health.  The science behind the connection to Alzheimer’s disease is fairly recent, but the evidence suggests that sugar toxicity causes inflammation and can also lead to insulin resistance, eventually damaging the brain. Dr. Dale Bredesen in his new book, The End of Alzheimer’s   explains:
Sugar is like fire, a source of energy but very dangerous. If you have a fireplace in your home, the amount of wood and the size of fire needed to heat it depends on the size of the house: Less wood/smaller fire if your house is small, more wood/bigger fire if your house is large. Now imagine that you shrink your house by 90 percent, which is essentially what happens when we move less, as is true of sedentary-living Americans: we need less energy. That makes your fireplace effectively ten times as large. If you kept pouring on the wood and stoking the fire, your house would quickly become unbearably hot, the fire might escape from the fireplace, and you would do everything possible to keep your house from burning down. This is the stress most of us are now experiencing. Our bodies recognize sugar as poisonous, and therefore rapidly activate multiple mechanisms to reduce its concentration in our blood and tissues. For one thing, we store the extra energy as fat, which produces brain-damaging factors called adipokines. (p. 49)
In an interview with Dr. Steven Masley, he goes into more detail about the underlying causes of Alzheimer’s and why a tailored approach is required (the whole interview is worthwhile, but the key explanations start at 12 minutes in). The bottom line is we all could benefit from reducing insulin resistance, restoring insulin sensitivity, and reducing glucose levels by drastically lowering our intake of sugar and white refined carbohydrates in order to repair our metabolism and overall health.

That's easier said than done. The reality is we crave our guilty pleasures, especially sweet ones. My mother loves ice cream, and I love dark chocolate; luckily it turns out that cacao is full of polyphenols and is good for you in moderation. Who doesn’t need a little cookie now and then? We are working on the idea of drastic reduction. Our local pasticceria, which has been in business for 56 years and makes
Itty bitty gelato balls
everything on site using high quality ingredients, makes little balls of gelato dipped in dark chocolate. They are the perfect dessert with built-in portion control (and gelato is better than ice cream in terms of calories, fat, and sugar). We also get hazelnuts and candied orange peels dipped in dark chocolate as a treat to have with our post-lunch espresso. Italians make a gluten-free cookie called Brutti Ma Buoni (ugly but good) with hazelnuts and egg whites that we indulge in from time to time. I recently invented a gluten free cookie recipe that we love with oats, raisins, walnuts, and a mashed banana. Here is the recipe (amounts are approximate for about 20 cookies):



Banana Walnut Oatmeal Raisin Cookies

These smell really good while baking.
1 ripe banana
1 egg
3 tbls coconut oil (softened consistency)
¼ cup sugar
½ tsp vanilla
1 tsp baking powder
¼ cup rice flour
2 tbls tapioca flour
½ tsp xanthum gum
Pinch of salt
1 cup organic oats
3 tbls raisins
¼ cup chopped walnuts

Preheat oven to 375 degrees, and use parchment paper on a cookie sheet. Mix the coconut oil and sugar until combined, add the egg and beat until a little frothy. Add the banana and mash with a fork, and add the vanilla. Combine dry ingredients and add to the wet ingredients, mixing in raisins and walnuts when combined. Drop spoonfuls of dough on the cookie sheet and bake for 12-15 minutes until slightly brown on the edges.



Another way to drastically reduce your sugar intake is to indulge in other less harmful guilty
Borini's store window in Rome
pleasures. For us, that means Italian shoes. I recently discovered a store in Via dei Pettinari, Borini, that makes beautiful handmade leather shoes in my size. Let’s just say I got a bit carried away. I cannot resist the comfort of shoes that slide onto my bare feet like soft leather gloves. I can’t bear the ugly look of Crocs when all around me are beautiful Roman women, simply elegant from head to toe. Fortunately, my mother’s favorite brand of Italian shoes, Manas by Lea Foscati, were on sale at the Friday outdoor market, so it all balanced out in the end.

Shoe selfie


Sunday, January 28, 2018

How We Cheer Up

I won’t lie. Sometimes, even the idyllic city of Rome isn’t enough to conquer the blues. My mother’s 89-year-old body, with all original parts, sometimes hurts, gives out on her, and in other ways causes her to get in a funk. There’s no doubt that caretaking, with the daily chores of cooking, cleaning, shopping, etc. can also take a toll on my mood. Then news from the U.S. is often seriously depressing. So we try to abide by some guidelines from neuroscience to work on our mutual happiness.

Sunshine and Vitamin D
According to Dr. Alex Korb of UCLA, sunlight absorbed through the skin helps the brain make serotonin and we know that vitamin D insufficiency is a widespread problem affecting at least half of us.  We need more than presently recommended to prevent chronic diseases.  
Mimi loves the sun too.
We are lucky to have a south-facing terrace where we planted a lemon tree and put an outdoor chair to sit in when the sun is out. One of my mother’s favorite morning rituals is to sit out in the sun for at least 20 minutes, and luckily the climate in Rome is warm enough that she can do this even in January. (We make sure she has sunscreen on as she’s had her fair share of skin cancer removals).

Fresh Flowers
Dr. Andrew Weil has said that we should keep fresh flowers in the home “for the beauty, fragrance, and the lift they give our spirits.”  My mother really has a gift for arranging flowers, and her idea of fun is having multiple bunches of fresh flowers to cut and arrange in various types of glass and ceramic vases and place all around. Here in Rome the large wholesale flower market is open to the public on Tuesday mornings, so I have made an effort to get there weekly and come home with different flowers for her to play with.
The mercato dei fiori is gigantic.

Maureen at work.

I work alongside her, trying to learn from her expertise, and then about halfway through the week, we recut and rearrange, sorting out the drooping or dried out ones. We also have a regular flower guy we buy from, and he is so sweet that he always greets my mother with some free bunch of fragrant flowers (last time it was baby paper whites).
Maureen with our fiorista.
Outdoor flower stands abound in Rome, and prices are so reasonable that there really is no excuse for not having at least a few bouquets in the apartment at all times.

Gratitude
There are scientific studies that show the benefits of expressing gratitude  and Dr. Korb explains how this habit can also improve sleep and overall health. When the bad news gets us feeling anxious, helpless, angry, we try to focus on all the reasons we have to be grateful, including the fact that we had the means to move to Rome and live here in such a beautiful apartment. When we wake up in the morning, we express our feelings of appreciation for the view of pine trees outside the window, for a warm shower with fragrant soap, for a hot mug of espresso coffee and steamed milk, for fresh-squeezed orange juice. While these material things may seem insignificant, it’s not authentic to have a daily thought of “thank God I’m alive” but rather it is in recognizing the small things that bring us pleasure that we can reap the benefits of practicing gratitude. It goes without saying that when we express gratitude towards others the effect is amplified. When I was a teacher, the single best thing I did to build morale and good will in the classroom was to have a moment halfway through the day for everyone to share compliments with each other. Who doesn’t love a public “thank you” from the heart? We all do. Empty praise, no. Sincere thanks, yes.
Maureen reassures Mimi during the fireworks
of  New Year's Eve.


Hugs
We all love a good hug, whether from a friend, lover, family member, even a pet (yes, cats give hugs as well as dogs!) Giving and receiving affection is absolutely linked to human contentment, as physical expressions of love and connection complement the verbal and non-verbal ways we express
My friend Luca gives great hugs.
how we care for each other. In my family, we hug a lot. My sister and I established a funny “seal” hug when we were younger that we still do from time to time, and it makes us laugh. One of us is the seal, the other wraps arms around tightly and the seal flaps flippers and makes a happy seal bark. Where did this come from? No one taught us to hug like that. But we invented it and made it ours. Hugs are my antidote of choice to the blues, whether I’m asking or giving. It just feels good, and the feeling is contagious.

Acknowledging Emotions
Sometimes if you’re angry the last thing you want to hear from someone is “cheer up” – you’re likely to retort with a scowl or worse. Apparently, neuroscience says it’s best to label your feelings and know that the less desirable ones come and go in time.  I am finding that with Alzheimer’s this is especially important, as the disorientation and confusion caused by memory lapses can be quite aggravating. My mother in particular hates “feeling stupid.” Rather than trying to refocus or shift discussion away from my mother’s need to express those feelings, I will acknowledge them and let her talk through it until naturally things move on. Whenever she has been particularly agitated or fearful, I also talk her through some calming deep breathing, which is also effective. Lately we’ve been using Dr.Weil’s 4-7-8 breathing exercise at bedtime and it seems to be working.

The Ponte Milvio market.
Go for a Walk
Yes, exercise is important for physical and mental health, but a simple walk outdoors can do a world of good without having to get to the gym or follow a workout routine. One of my favorite walks is to stroll through the antique outdoor market along the Tiber by Ponte Milvio on Sunday mornings. I love the combination of admiring old things for sale, people watching, and soaking in the sunshine and views of the river. I also love to walk in the historic center of Rome in small side streets that lead to wide open piazzas, especially as late afternoon sun gives way to twilight, and to the early evening. It is positively magical for my mood.


When all else fails, we pour ourselves a glass of wine and get out the savory snacks.
The fountain in front of the Pantheon is one
of my favorites.